HOW TO COOPERATE WITH OTHER

Cooperation is the process of groups of organisms working or acting together for common or mutual benefit, as opposed to working in competition for selfish benefit...Wikipedia.
 You should embrace cooperation because through it your weak parts can be strengthened.no one can get success or Remain successful without cooperation from others. A great speaker will be useless without cooperation from the audience. 

Even God needed cooperation from the Holy spirit and Jesus,a good husband will not have a good home without a good cooperation from the wife.

HOW TO BE COOPERATIVE WITH OTHERS

BE TOLERANT - sometimes we get put off when we see our partners do some things we don't like, forgetting that we are all different, having different values, different goals and different characters. Instead of shouting and complaining about their characters, try to correct them.

DONT THINK YOU ARE FAULTLESS - you too have a bad side, no one is impeccable. See cooperation as a way of strengthening your weaknesses.

AVOID ENVY- we all have a role to play in all we do as a team. Play your role well, you don't need to feel inferior because of what others are doing.

APPRECIATE OTHERS- motivation and encouragement comes when we appreciate others, it would even give us chance to learn how others are striving and dominating even when things are hard.

BE A GOOD LISTENER- that you refuse to talk when others are talking Does not mean you are inferior. Listening will help you understand others intensively. Listen more and talk less.

SHOW LOVE TO YOUR PARTNERS- one thing that keeps a team going is love...love is what makes you stay faithful and focus when the chips are down.

 

 Learn from those ants.
 
  One of the nicest thing about good cooperation is that you always have someone by your side to help you stand when you fall and to keep you standing.
 We are smart alone but smarter together. 

HARD TIMES

      

hard times are when the bright light seems dark,when springs of waters turn to
 marah,when all hope seems lost.

     hard times are never pleasant,even if we don't pray for hard times, we are bound to
face it someday.
some example of hard times is when the woman in 1KINGS 17 lost the precious child GOD
gave  to her when Elijah prayed for her or when that poor woman had only little flour
that she and her son will eat and nothing else.when the cloud seems falling down.
        YEAH! Such moment seems dark but the truth is that it is never completely dark,
there is always a hole that produces some fragment of light even in the darkest of
times.but the problem is we seldom see such hole because we do not see hard times
as an opportunity to sprout out stronger roots.just like a Chinese bamboo tree it spends a
long time strengthening its root and sprout out a strong stem after a long time.
        there is always a light at the end of the tunnel,that small amount of light can
stand out and cover up all darkness.that light gives direction and guides our path
if we follow it strictly...
        Remember if you rush,you will crush. don't run to  the light that is extinguishable
be patient and figure out the true light JESUS,He is the sources of all hope,in him you
things you desire.in him there is joy unspeakable.he is the light that can never be
extinguished.
        cheer up and give him the chance to take charge and give you the right steps to
take  even in hard times.
 

HOW DO I CONQUER ANGER?

We always want conquer to what will add value to us,only a foolish man will try to conquer
what will never bring value to him,you wouldn't want  to conquer a waste land,but sure you will like to
conquer a rich kingdom. Anger is an unpleasant mood,it is of no value. why do you want to
conquer what has no value?



 First drop the idea of conquering it,are  you angry right now? you only get angry when your
mind,your energy and your body are not behaving in the way you want .anger is one
unpleasant state of the mind.

 Why would any one want to make himself unpleasant? why? what is the point? what is the
need of making yourself unpleasant? there are many unpleasant state already in the world
you are only in a childish mood to get unpleasant because the suituation around you is
unpleasant.

 I am not telling you not to get angry,you can get angry all the time if you think there
is any intelligence in getting angry.
YOU SUFFER MORE THAN YOUR VICTIM WHEN YOU GET ANGRY.
STOP CAUSING MORE UNPLEASANTNESS TO YOURSELF.



                                                                                                                     -JAGGI VASUDEV.

LIVE FOR NOW

  Have you ever observe your life critically, only to end up with wishful thoughts like;i wish i had taken the
the right path in the past or i wish i attended a good high school? did those thoughts changed your
situation for better? did it make you fulfilled? CAPITAL NO I guess.
wishful thoughts of what had happened
in the past is just a waste of creative energy.

FEAR

Fear, false experience appearing real,if there is one thing that
disorientate and limit people most to a particular position in this present world,
it is fear.
It is an unpleasant emotion caused by the belief that someone or something is dangerous, likely to cause pain, or a threat.

WHY YOU SHOULD FLEE ENVY

Envy  is an emotion which "occurs when a person lacks another's superior quality, achievement, or

 possession and either desires it or wishes that the other lacked it"-WIKIPEDIA.
 Envy is nothing but a waste of creative energy,it happens when you refuse to
 understand what and who you are.

TRY AGAIN.

 Many a times we try so hard and still fail,at such moment,we feel the world has come to an end.
some people even try to take their life because of failure.if there could be hope for a try that is cut down,
why do you think there cant be a second chance for you again?

 

WHY YOUR MOTIVATION NEVER LAST FOREVER

                 

                   

                     And then He woke up,

Tenacious and dogged,Like a lioness hunting its prey.

                    He is high spirited, like an eagle flapping its wings in  the sky.
    

 

ACADEMIC EXCELLENCE

     

MANY A TIMES, WE STRIVE SO HARD TO BE THE BEST IN OUR SOCIETY,MOST STUDENT ALWAYS WANT TO BE THE BEST IN THEIR CLASS.DOES READING ALONE GUARANTY YOUR BEING THE BEST IN YOUR CLASS?